There’s an idea brewing in my head. As I look over the journal that is my blog, I find a recurring theme of frustration and burnout. What has not been mentioned is the boredom that David is experiencing. What I have been doing with my school is not working any better than the public school that David left. Not only have I not lit a fire, I have not even been filling the bucket! (see my mission statement) I have been very busy these last few days devising a new plan. In the past our plan has been mapped out in a planner with a task list for each day. The new plan includes time frames, in half hour increments, for each subject matter. This is my plan to get the work done. Oh my… really??
Routine and structure are the enigmas of our life. It doesn’t come naturally for us. I keep thinking that it is the way that we will accomplish what needs to be done but it just doesn’t happen. It never has for me. Ever.
So, what if? What if we tried unschooling? What if Dad and I supported anything that David was interested in learning?
What if we actually asked him what he would like to learn?
What if the tv stayed off and video games were relegated to weekends? Now, mind you, there is a real issue with the tv staying off. I, for one, happen to like it on. I’m a listener. I work while it’s on. David, on the other hand, is watcher. He cannot have the tv on and do something else at the same time – NOT EVEN TOAST A BAGEL! Tv on = burned bagel. Turning off the tv is going to hurt me more than it’s going to hurt him but it will save the bagels.
I digress. What if the tv stayed off and video games were relegated to the weekends? I think, with time (only a little time, not a lot), that things would start to change. For both of us.
David worked for and finally purchased a Lego Mindstorm NXT robot kit. What if he was allowed TIME to completely investigate the NXT? What if he finished the story that he started writing six months ago and I helped him illustrate it and bind it into a real book? What if we listened to an audio book? What if he cooked at least once a week? What if he made an chef’s apron to wear while he cooked our meal? What if we watched Planet Earth and other documentaries on DVD? What if we did a unit study with another home school family? What if we tossed the books for the next five months and really dived into hands on learning?
What if we learned and stayed sane and had fun – all at the same time?
I think I might be on to something…